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Visual stimulation of men Push Effects (Internal factors) gQ(WcRϑ Unsatisfied marital relationship: Mid-life crisis Career Disillusions: Sense of failure Children s birth & growth: empty nest#" Z&F " F&F~ " F#    , /,      L >$6Passive R (Not Planned) YG$"Pain Reduction: Escape from suffering Neediness: Push Effect ZZY`(b) Doubted marriage decision was a good one Wife is not supportive: Source of frustration Marital relationship maintained: But unhappy Conflicts are denied: No skill to resolve or repair With increased responsibilities: More frustration Unassertive husband bears pain & wished it ends Novelty extra-marital relationship: No history, NewVD" ZN " Z&$4=R6Passive R (Not Planned) YG$Opportunistic: Put self in vulnerable situation Unaware of limits & boundaries Adult-child of dysfunctional family Physically, emotionally or sexually abused Unhealthy emotional limits; greed 2k Too much disclosure of personal-marital issues Unable to say  no to women excessive self disclosure Tangled in dual relationships:  church secretary Can t say no to pretty women: Pedestal effect Wife has a bad history: This woman does not This woman is younger & prettier:  There s hope O " P$ " P " P. " P] " P0$F `/72.  \*  #6Passive R (Not Planned) YG$Object of  love obsession: Your  fan b Secret admirer: Relationship in the  mind You are object of an emotional transference An  ideal husband that should be or have been An  ideal father who is loving and warm An  old boy friend who was nicer than spouse She  loves you to avenge your wife for  it is not fair because  she s too lucky N "  " S " S$(/!6Passive R (Not Planned) YG$ Trapped to be destroyed: Revenge driven Woman is a  men-hater : Conquer them! Power & control expressed by woman Usually very attractive, show-off & intelligent Casual & easy sex: To  catch you Uses relationship as black-mail Uses relationship or  pregnancy to black-mail  Part-time relationship better than no relationship Unusual reason: Spiritual warfare?*" ZI " P0 " P" " Z " Z# " P* I0" /5#gr NIY-Nv'`VpbNw1 g0 Reduced sexual desires for spouse: Age vs. health Spouse unwilling to satisfy sexual desire Pornography preoccupies your life Masturbation into marriage: Spouse unaware Sexual attraction to female other than your wife Sexual experience with woman in your church Sexual experience with your wife s best friend Same-sex feelings that do not go away with prayer`gZ2* " 2ZPhysical-Emotional Intimacy Stages`aNSOvяvk2."f( e("    jJ)Y (`O}Y )Yl N/) NcOo` (eh`O) Y g>yg NcSvSOc ([ \e!) 2NekSOvc (xdKb, Ɂ, -, U, p) '`c '`ܕ| (7u\Ovܕ|YƖ-N(W'`)& "  " ff%f ff f f fff f3f3ffff6     The Physical Intimacy-Orgasmic CycleSOvя'`Nؚnov_t (Copyright Melvin Wong, Ph.D. 2000)pZ$f% eg%f%&f @$    % [a/fgz}Yv SOvя_~a_n ~a__'`vؚno '`ؚno_naCN}Y '`vؚnoa[ܕ|a/fgz}Yv '`ؚnoS!qaX0Wzl d[[ bNO NUN u&P ;ed'` a` 1Yg zha +cWea|>Z,P de.d d"di  TPercentage of Those Seeking Sexual Fulfillment on the Internet (Zogby International):U?b b bFocus on the Family recently conducted a survey with Zogby International Indicating that 1 out of 5 American adults may have looked for sex on the Internet 20.8% of respondents to a March 8-10, 2000 survey admitted they had visited a sexually-oriented Web sitejninIb#b"Df"hbBTPercentage of Those Seeking Sexual Fulfillment on the Internet (Zogby International):U?b b bThe percentage of those viewing sex sites was higher among males and young adults. 31% of men surveyed said they had visited sex sites and 37% of 18-24 year olds gave that response4*b"*b  TPercentage of Those Seeking Sexual Fulfillment on the Internet (Zogby International):U?b b b0Of interest to Focus on the Family was the fact that 17.8% of those who claim to be "born again" Christians and 18% of those who are married have also viewed sex sites. In a follow-up question, nearly two-thirds of American adults thought it wasn't likely that sexual fulfillment could be found online6Z8Z>4bb 8f*>f b  B 0 LThe Problem: Clergy & Immorality 1992 Leadership magazine survey of pastors.2M *(,RSome 46% acknowledged sexual problems 20% report some form of "inappropriate sexual contact," 10% intercourse outside of marriage. Psychologically: Extra-Marital Sex is for Intimacy, Friendship, Close Communication, Power, Control, Domination. Why does it happen? Responsibility of elders & deacons. Sex is taboo? What does the Bible say?FS& 8% K "&Common Chinese Pastors Characteristics''"NLow Personal Maturity: But highly Educated Codependency, Dysfunctional-Abuse-Neglect Unable to Socialize: Loneliness in Pastorate No friends, No team-work, No help, Territorial Low Conflicts Resolution Skills Resentments built in Congregation, Win-Lose Mishandling of Trust and Authority Low Accountability, Overstepping Boundaries, +*-/!,#.+*-/!,#  .#Unhealthy PastorsAuthoritarianism is the theme of sermons  Falling in line  Conforming  Controls Pastor himself is the focus of sermons Personal examples used to invoke self-adulation Messiah Complex. Emotional Enmeshment Sermons are insensitive, simplistic, naive Sarcasm, disparaging illustration of others The pulpit is used as a Venting Place They are flashy & Flamboyant: Theater)P*P'P0PQP,PLP)*'0Q,L$Healthy PastorsnThey use humor well. Can laugh at himself They have compassion & empathy Can take others perspectives. A team-player No sarcasm, cynicism, no personal attacks They glorify God but not themselves They can express gratitude, not patronize They admit personal limitations They manifest good boundaries: Can say noBIZWZZIWN,NZZY`(b)v_tyrrF*$^7u'`: bv P'` (b!qPS) sY'` :  } v P'` (_t&qnaN|^y)]pov})F6F6F6F,F6F6 F6F,~ mNarcissism Features\Over Self-Evaluation:  False Self-Confidence Exploitation of others in name of ministry Entitlement: Self-expectations of special treatment Narcissistic Injury: Rage when criticized Lacks Empathy:  Bad Taste Humor Can t comfort Preoccupation with Envy:  They compare Absence of Guilt & Introspectionb/6'7"I%Hazards of Pastoral Ministry:Public Self: Are you genuine in public? Private Self: Are you a different person at home? Genuine Self: Reconciling Public & Private Selves How do you know what is your real self? Have you already lost your genuine self? Is there a place where you can be real? Do you have fellow ministry partners to be real with?TQ^Z2Q(6&Specific Pastoral HazardsLimits Violation: Congregation member, personal friend, counselee, baby-sitter, friend of my wife, lunch partner? Boundary Violation: Limit conversation content Relational Dependence: Can you do without her? Emotional Dependence: You must talk to her? Sexual Dependence: Have you already violated sexual boundary  So can t stop? BJ/,N'Dealing with unhealthy defenses Intellectualization `S :  If I can think about it and it is logical, it must be right Rationalization TtS :  It is reasonable, therefore it must be right Spiritualization l\HS :  There is a Biblical support, therefore it must be right Justification wS :  Therefore, it is right and no one can challenge me! Accountability & Counseling:  Check reality "eZSPQCKf(Over-Coming The PitfallsaBuild Friendships: Dual Relationships & Boundaries. Can you have a church buddy? Learn to establish intimate relationships: Vulnerability Variety of friendships, no dual relationships Friend to your Spouse & Children Balance of Rational-Emotional Awareness Accountability Group: Other pastors, counselor Get Personal Counseling for self: ConfidentialityTQQ9O(a/4ATUVZ[\+_,`-a.bPbr _5  !"#$& ՜.+,D՜.+,D   On-screen Show(`  %Times New Roman 標楷體 Garamond 新細明體 WingdingsArialArial Unicode MSDefault DesignC牧養事奉中的性困扰与陷阱 Sexuality & Pastoral MinistryPowerPoint Presentation 提多書 1:6-9 聖經新譯本基督徒心理网址(介紹) Types of Ministry Sexual IssuesNarcissistic Self-Repair Types of Ministry Sexual Issues'Active 主動 (Pre-meditated, Planned)$Passive 被動 (Not Planned) 外遇$Passive 被動 (Not Planned) 外遇$Passive 被動 (Not Planned) 外遇$Passive 被動 (Not Planned) 外遇$Passive 被動 (Not Planned) 外遇%牧養事奉中的性困扰与陷阱DPhysical-Emotional Intimacy Stages情感与肉体的親近的階段uThe Physical Intimacy-Orgasmic Cycle肉体的親近至性交高潮的循環 (Copyright © Melvin Wong, Ph.D. 2000)UPercentage of Those Seeking Sexual Fulfillment on the Internet (Zogby International)UPercentage of Those Seeking Sexual Fulfillment on the Internet (Zogby International)UPercentage of Those Seeking Sexual Fulfillment on the Internet (Zogby International)MThe Problem: Clergy & Immorality 1992 Leadership magazine survey of pastors.'Common Chinese Pastors CharacteristicsUnhealthy PastorsHealthy Pastors*一般華人婚外情(戀)的心理特色Narcissism FeaturesHazards of Pastoral MinistrySpecific Pastoral Hazards Dealing with unhealthy defensesOver-Coming The Pitfalls  Fonts UsedDesign Template Slide Titles 8@ _PID_HLINKSAh&http://www.christianmentalhealth.com/http://www.asianpsy.com/$http://www.chinesementalhealth.com/'_`9Dr. Melvin WongDr. Melvin Wong